My Teenagers Aren't Popular & I'm Glad: Why This Mom Is Happy She Isn't Raising the "Popular Kids" by Heather Holter

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August 14, 2023

My Teenagers Aren't Popular & I'm Glad: Why This Mom Is Happy She Isn't Raising the "Popular Kids"

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Elisa Schmitz
This is genius, Heather Holter . It is very true that there is intense pressure on the "popular" kids. That's not to say there isn't pressure on the "regular" kids, but there's an extra layer there, which can add even more anxiety, etc. No one wants to fall off that pedestal once they're on it. I think being in the middle of the pack is probably safer for kids. I'm wondering what our teachers think of this? Teacher Karen Renee Herren Ann Marie Gardinier Halstead Kim Kusiciel Heather Bragg Tales from Classroom Tales from the Classroom Bill Ellis
Ann Marie G. Halstead
So interesting! I think your daughter makes a great point, Heather Holter ! My hope has always been for my kids to find “their tribe,” the kids with whom they can be themselves, kids they can be silly with, kids who have their backs. It doesn’t even have to be a big group. Quality over quantity!
Heather Holter
I am starting to think kids are much smarter than parents in many ways. The wisdom that comes out of their mouths sometimes is just amazing!
Ann Marie G. Halstead
They really are wise sometimes!!
Bill James
I work with much younger children (aged 3 to 8), but I'd imagine there are parallels. The stresses I witness in the upper end of this age group centre on those at the insecure lower end of each group. Is it better to be at the top of the middle group than the bottom of the popular group? Perhaps
Michael Kennedy
I'm right on the cusp with my oldest girl but have two more coming in the pipeline.
It's great to read stories of confident and happy kids combined with the how's and why's! Solid!
Heather Holter
My teens are amazing kids! Much wiser than I was as a teen!
Sean Robbins Portland
Great read. The sweet spot is somewhere between popular and disliked. Just having your group of friends and be happy in school is all you need.

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