Rules, Rules & More Rules for Kids: Here's Why I Hate Some of Them! by Mike Prochaska

Opinion
December 07, 2017

Rules, Rules & More Rules for Kids: Here's Why I Hate Some of Them!

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Mike Prochaska
I was mad today when I wrote this.
Elisa Schmitz
You make an interesting point, Mike Prochaska . I think schools create rules like that to try and maintain a safe environment. But eliminating risk doesn’t teach our kids about cause and effect or consequences. I’m wondering what our teachers think of this? Teacher Karen Kim Kusiciel Heather Bragg Ann Marie Gardinier Halstead
Teacher Karen
I think you've hit the nail on the head...yes, of course, we don't want kiddos to in a safe environment, but as I've said multiple times all learning and growth requires some level of risk. We cannot bubble-wrap our children and parents will not be with them forever...better we help them to gradually take on more and more responsibility for their own lives! And you know where I'm going here...PLAY is the best vehicle for laying the a solid foundation--addressing all areas of development! #PlayMatters
Brian Mackenzie
this post made me wonder 'do snow ball launchers exist?' yep! :) www.amazon.ca/Whamo-Solo-Snow-...
Mike Prochaska
Wow I want one now. Can I send my kids to school with this?
Brian Mackenzie
that depends...would they be 'throwing' snowballs?? :D
Ann Marie G. Halstead
I think some of this goes back to "We do it this way because this is the way we've always done it." This philosophy drives me crazy. I don't think it serves anyone well- not students, not teachers, not institutions of any kind. Whenever something says something like this to me, I respectfully ask, do you know why this decision/rule/policy was initially created? This often leads to an interesting discussion. :)
Mike Prochaska
Yes this was my whole point of writing this
Bill James
This is a great tip, Ann Marie. As far as I can see, the attitude you've described above kills creativity, inquiry and a joy of learning throughout our schools. We need all the tools we can gather to counteract this approach, as many staff hold onto it for dear life. And they often don't know why.

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