Coaching Kids Versus Over-Doing: How to Raise Responsible Kids Parenting

Cynthia Miller
6 years ago

Parenting means raising children to be responsible adults. After all, one day we actually won't be here to take care of them! That's where coaching versus over-doing comes in. 

  • Coaching means teaching, so that the child learns to do for herself. 
  • Over-doing means taking over the responsibility instead (homework, chores, etc.). 

Coaching is cleaning up alongside a child, to show her how to do it; over-doing is cleaning up for the child instead. Coaching is helping with homework; over-doing is giving all the answers. 

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Comments (2)

Elisa Schmitz
Great distinction to make. Thanks for the great tip, Cynthia Miller !
Bill James
Over-do it consistently, and the best case scenario is that you raise a child who is over-reliant on your support throughout childhood and well into adulthood. The worst car scenario is a child who is disengaged - from study, work and from you!
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