Parents, Say "Yes" to Kids Doing Risky Things: 10 Dangerous Ideas to Consider Opinion Fun With Dad
Hey parents: I say, let kids try risky things! I found this great book called 50 Dangerous Things (You Should Let Your Children Do) by Gever Tulley. Here are my 10 favorite ideas from the book:
Throw giant rocks off cliffs or bridges into water to see how big of a splash they can make. I did this millions of time as a kid, and I have seen adults who don’t allow their children to do it. The first time I did this with my kids was when we were on a road trip and they needed to get out of the car. We found a place to throw giant rocks over a cliff into a river and their eyes lit up with pure joy!
Let kids stick their hands or faces out of the window of the car. It’s like exploring a wind tunnel. They open and close their hands and feel the wind pressure. (Of course, they need to be safely buckled in!)
Hammer a nail. So many people these days don’t know how to hammer nails. Hammering improves eye-hand coordination and teaches children a skill they can use in the future.
Burn something with a magnifying glass. Ever try this? You just put the magnifying glass in the sun and it provides you with a focused beam of heat that can burn paper, leaves and even melt plastic. I remember melting my toys on the sidewalk on a warm summer day!
Strong swimmers can jump from high into a calm river or lake. Of course, you should first make sure that the water is deep enough and there's no current. The first time I did this was in Colorado, and the feeling of excitement was like no other. Not just children should experience this – all people, young and old. (Wear your life vest and water shoes!)
Put a penny on railroad tracks and wait for a train to run it over. After the train safely passes by, see if you can find it. Of course, you need to make sure kids are safe and far away from the tracks when the train comes. I did this with my kids one day while waiting for Mom at the train station. We found one of the three pennies we had left, flattened by the train. (This isn't safe on rapid transit train systems such as the "L" in Chicago, which utilizes an electrified "third rail.")
Ride a bike over a homemade bike ramp. Making a bike ramp and the feeling of danger it gives kids as they ride their bikes over it is so freeing. The feeling of flying through the air and a sense of danger is something kids should experience (wearing helmets and safety pads, of course!).
Play with fire. My kids are only 5 and 6, so I only let them play with fire while we roast marshmallows and make s’mores. They get so excited when the marshmallows catch on fire and they have to blow them out. With older kids, I could see giving them more freedom to try and build the fire, etc.
Shoot a slingshot. Slingshots can provide hours of fun and they’re a great way to introduce firearm safety – like don’t point it at anyone, ever. I bought my son a slingshot and he loves to shoot rocks over the hills at Grandma’s house.
Climb a rope. I learned that most schools don’t have ropes for children to climb in gym anymore. Kids should climb ropes for strength, agility and fun!
It's about taking calculated risks, keeping safety first always. What risky things do you allow your kids to do??
Editor's note: Kids should be supervised at all times. Each child is unique, so use common sense and your own discretion when considering the types of age-appropriate activities your child participates in. Only you know your child and what makes sense for him or her to try. Safety first! As always, this information is provided for entertainment purposes only. The views expressed in this post are those of the author, and not necessarily those of 30Second Mobile.
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