Argue in Front of the Kids? 6 Tactics That Will Help You Resolve Conflicts & Become a Smooth Negotiator Relationships Parenting

Our children learn to deal with conflict by watching us. How can we be the best role models? Here are six tips to be a cool-headed negotiator when faced with a confrontation!

• Stay calm. 
• Acknowledge the other person's viewpoint. If you are defensive, it fuels the argument. 
• If it is overheated, take time out to calm down and revisit the issue when you are both calm. 
• Use "I" or "we" statements, such as "I feel" or "we both." 
• See if there can be compromise on both sides. 
• Reassure the other person that you still respect them as a person and you are glad you can talk about the differences. It takes trust.

Follow these tips and your kids will thank you!