Words Hurt: Emotional & Verbal Abuse Are as Damaging to Kids as Physical Abuse by Donna John

Parenting
June 01, 2017

Words Hurt: Emotional & Verbal Abuse Are as Damaging to Kids as Physical Abuse
Kelli Porcaro
Ugh. This is so sad.
S Roberts
This is what I learned from my aunt who was in an emotionally abusive marriage that shows the difference between emotional and physical abuse which is even worse for children because they can't escape.
She was in a very emotionally abusive marriage for 15 yrs, which none of us could see so really didn't know why they divorced. Even though we are very close the subject never came up why they divorced until a few yrs ago when she came to stay and help out while I was recovering from an illness. During that week when nobody was around she told stories of growing up, then I told her she didn't have to answer, but would she tell me why she got the divorce. As she told of incident after incident that finally became the norm how she was emotionally abused, my heart ached hearing how badly she suffered in silence. And that's where emotional abuse is worse, in our opinion. She said it's invisible whereas a black eye isn't, so trying to get help is useless. Those types of abusers are usually very charismatic on the outside but cross the threshold of their home and they turn into that monster.

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